The New York Times essay by Jancee Dunn, "When Someone You Love Is Upset, Ask This One Question", suggests that "Helped, Heard, or Hugged?" is a skillful way to characterize what somebody needs:

• thoughtful, solicited advice
• an empathetic listener
• physical reassurance

... since sometimes people want assistance in problem-solving, sometimes they need to vent, and sometimes they just crave a reminder that they are loved!

_{(cf Twenty Second Hugs (2023-08-15), ...) - ^z - 2023-12-01}